Sexy Corsets: Top 5 Reasons to Get Yours Today! (cont.)

Part IV

I would be remiss in my duties if I neglected to mention the fellas! Ladies, please prepare yourself for the reactions that this little garment is sure to garner.

If this is your first “rodeo”, once he gets past the confusion (what the heck is that?) and surprise (Whoa!!! I can’t believe it!), the very sight of you in a genuine corset is sure to awaken all his senses!

Part V

Let’s face it, we live in a time in which discount stores are king (Ross, Marshall’s, Target, and dare I say… Walmart)! But, I beseech you to reconsider when the time comes to make purchasing decisions in regard to your fine unmentionables. Why go to the trouble of finding the perfect ensemble when, in the end, you plan to wear a flimsy $5 bra and panties underneath!

While there is a modest investment involved in acquiring an authentic corset, remember that it is exactly that; an investment. An authentic corset is an investment in you. You will have many years of enjoyment with this garment (whether worn as an outer garment, undergarment or as “Queen of the Night”). Provided that you have cared for your garment properly, you can expect more than 5, 6, 7 years with it (although I am certain that once you have experienced owning one, you will want others and switching them out will ensure longevity).

Sexy Corsets: Top 5 Reasons to Get Yours Today! (cont.)

Part III

Remember the true purpose of a foundation garment, to make you look good in your clothes. Many corsets made today are created with some of the most beautiful and luxurious silks available, and as such can be worn as an outer garment. For this reason, we tend to forget its primary purpose as an undergarment.

When worn as an undergarment (unseen by others), today’s professional woman will find that impeccably tailored suit will “fall” just as the tailor meant for it. For the wearer, the suit will appear to be form fitting and she will find herself standing erect (there will be no slouching ;) ) and feeling much taller.

So, don’t be surprised when coworkers and friends ask, “Have you lost weight?” or when they comment, “You look great!”

Sexy Corsets: Top 5 Reasons to Get Yours Today! (cont.)

Part II
Secondly, wearing an authentic corset actually feels good. When I say “good”, I mean comfortable. Now, it’s important to understand that a genuine corset is like no other foundation garment.

Let me explain. An authentic corset has the characteristics of a bra, but it lifts better than a bra. It will lift and mold your bust, whether sparingly or amply endowed, while simultaneously relieving pressure on the back and shoulders.

Corsets also have the characteristics of a girdle but are much firmer than a girdle. Made to your body’s specifications, it will mold itself to your form while maintaining the integrity of the garment. Because of the steel binding (as opposed to the plastic used in many mass produced “bustiers”) and busk used, it will not buckle under the pressure of sitting or bending over. This creates a sculpting effect and ensures the wearer that there will be no unsightly bulges or unexpected surprises. With the back-lacing, you are able to whittle your waistline down 2″ - 4″ (depending on the style and design of the garment). And, know that once you “batten down the hatches”, it will remain so until you deem otherwise.

That being said, remember that little black dress that you love so much but have not been able to get into since you put on a few pounds? Well, move it back to the front of the closet because once you’ve added a real corset to your wardrobe, you will find that your apprehension in regards to donning that little number will quickly fade.

Sexy Corsets: Top 5 Reasons to Get Yours Today!

Part I:
There are many reasons that designers will give to intice you to plunk down the cash for a corset. But, as a wearer of these fine garments, I believe my perspective is a little different.

First of all, let me just say that I have worn corsets for the last twenty years and I must confess that the primary reason that I wear them is that they look fantastic! I mean, I look fantastic in them! When I put one on, I just feel like I am oozing sex appeal. The process of getting myself cinched in and seeing my reflection in the mirror mesmorizes me. The way the corset instantly and simultaneously hides my imperfections and accentuates a curvaceousness I didn’t even know I had is incredible!

We women have a myriad of reasons for doing the things we do and we all have our little secrets (things we do to give ourselves that extra little boost on the “feel good” meter) and this is one of mine. From the burgeoning age of nineteen to this new millenium (and along the way, size 4 to 16 and everything in between) the corset has been a constant in my wardrobe. You just never know when you will have to whip out the big guns ;)

Update

My apologies for having been away these past few weeks. These are very exciting times! We just returned from taking my youngest darling to those hallowed halls of higher learning. She is definitely a DIVA in training. I must confess that I have been experiencing many mixed emotions. I am so excited for her but I am so terrified, all rolled together in a tight little ball!

Well, back to the grind! We have many exciting times coming. As some of you may know, Sassy Sistas is an online boutique but we are physically based out of Houston, Texas. Over the next couple of months, we will be reaching out locally to our southern sassy sistas! There are several events in the works, including a winter fashion show. So, be on the look out for announcements.

Thanks!

Do Something Special! Now!

Ladie, do something special for yourwself, today! Find out once and for all what looks best on you. What makes you look and feel absolutely stunning? Do you know or are you just guessing? Is it hit or miss everytime you go shopping? Don’t really know what it is about that dress that makes you look fabulous and you haven’t been able to duplicate it? Well, now’s the time to take the guesswork out of the equation. Learn what colors and styles look best on you and why and dressing will never be like taking “pot shots” in the dark again! Learn how to “Color Me Beautiful”.

Sexy Costumes - Are You Serious?

Yes, I am! Sexy costumes are a fun way to get your sex life out of the doldrums. If you’ve become complacent in the bedroom, now’s the time to add a little spice, stip things up and get your honey smilin’ ear to ear!

Men are usually pretty good about following our cue in the bedroom. And, if we are constantly making excuses (you know what I mean; I’m tired, I’ve had a long day, the kids, etc.), they have a tendency to resign themselves to our regimen.

Well, there’s no better time than the present to reward him for his patience! Pick a day (like to tomorrow;), take off early, prepare some libido priming finger foods, grab a bottle of wine and done your naughty nurse outfit, sexy school girl uniform or majesty-corset-specialty.jpg“Debbie does Dallas” rump shakin’, freakum dress (be creative ladies, wigs and the whole nine are not outside the realm of possibility!)

Let the party begin! Have some fun with your man!

Liven things up!

Idea #3

Meet your lover at the door wearing a sexy costume! Don’t forget the aphrodisiacs: wine, candles, nibbles. You know how to do it!gypsy-rose.jpg

Corsets in the Work Place: Are They Appropriate?

If you were to enter the word “corset” into Google’s search engine, you would be amazed at all of the interesting results that would come up. Aside from a few retailer’s sites, scroll down a little and you will see advertisements for every fetish and exotic behavior imaginable; tight lacing training, how to achieve a 13” waist (as if!), gothic wear, sexy costumes and let us not forget the many sexually oriented corset fantasy stories, pictures and videos to whet every appetite.

While it is easy to understand the preoccupation with the idea of beautifully, vivacious women in luxurious silk hand crafted corsets performing tawdry acts, I couldn’t help but wonder – what about the “middle of the road” folks? What about women that are not necessarily into gothic attire and hedonistic lifestyles? What about the professional woman of today that just wants to look good and feel good about the way she looks? Is there a place for corsetry in her daily life?

maria-corset-satin-with-organza.gifOver the last two centuries, corsets have been an integral part of women’s foundation wear. Corsetry was highly valued by fashion savvy women of the eighteenth and nineteenth century for its contouring effects. And, for over 150 years, even working class women have been corseting because they discovered that a well fitted corset provided adequate support while simultaneously creating a trim figure. Corsets also aided in elevating the status of working class women of that era in that the wearing of corsets was associated with wealth and stature. Loosely speaking, lower class women did not corset themselves. Working class women came to understand, as their sisters of aristocracy before them knew that a well-corseted body in conjunction with suitable attire produced a striking image.

There are many things that have changed over the last century but there are many that remain the same. Working women of today still want to look good. And, while there’s no doubt that many women enjoy dressing up and playing the sex kitten or dominatrix (and every thing in between) for their sweeties, fashioning a commanding yet feminine presence in the “boardroom” is a highly desirable objective. This is an achievable goal utilizing genuine corsets.

Regular corseting (not to be mistaken with tight lacing or extreme corseting) with a properly fitted authentic corset – no cheap imitations here – has a sculpting effect on the body. Steel spiral boning, binding and busk are a lethal combination for instantly whittling your waist line and forming a stunning figure.lily-corset-satin.jpg
When selecting a corset to wear in a professional environment, generally, it is better to choose a garment to wear underneath your clothing. This is not to say that you could not wear a conservative underbust corset with a tailored blazer or wear a waist cincher over a blouse. But, for daily ear, it is probably wiser to choose corsets that will lie close to the body with minimal trim. This will allow you to achieve a smooth silhouette underneath your suiting. There are many corsets to choose from that would be suitable for wearing underneath your work attire.

There are many benefits to wearing corsets in the corporate environment. Real corsets will improve your posture by supporting your back, but please consult a physician before using for medical purposes. The steel spiral boning will keep your back erect. There will be no slouching in a steel boned corset and good posture is not only better for your back (preventing curvature) but looks professional.

Authentic corsets also feel good on the body. Many women find that wearing a well-fitted, made to measure garment such as a corset is very comfortable because of the way that it moulds itself to they body of the wearer. submissive-corset-satin.jpgFactor in the fine fabrics corsetieres use to manufacture corsets and you have the makings of luxurious garment suited for extended daily wear.

Aesthetically, a real corset can not be beat. Women instantly look thinner due to the form fitting nature of being laced up. The waist will be nipped in and the stomach will be flattened while simultaneously creating amazing curves from the bosom to the hips to the derriere.
Finely crafted corsetry is the power stroke in a professional woman’s corporate ensemble. The corseted woman in a tailored suit is poised and confident with an air of understated elegance. Are corset appropriate in the work place? Yes, yes they are!

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Get Him All Wet!

Idea #2

Run a bubble bath for him (yes, HIM!) after a hard day at work. Light dozens of candles (different heights - from pillar candles to tealights) and play soft relaxing music. Open a bottle of wine or champagne and warm up his towels with a towel warmer.